Are you a woman who would love to take control of her life?
Who wants to love herself
And to be loved conditionally.
To experience life to its fullest potential.
Dark feminine energy has carried a lot of negativities
Over the past few years
And women with this sort of energy
Are portrayed as stoic
Unapproachable, evil kind of a woman.
The reality is
Dark feminine energy isn’t about being someone else,
It is about discovering your most authentic,
Powerful version of yourself.
Women with this energy know
How to control their emotions,
Have a strong love for themselves,
They allow their intuition to guide them
And they are not afraid to walk away from anything
That disturbs their peace.
If you are looking to enter your dark feminine energy era
And experience a life that feels both fulfilling and rewarding
Today I will give you a few ways
To help you tap into this dark feminine energy
And transform your life completely.
TABLE OF CONTENT
- Set Boundaries
- Be Authentic
- Connect With Your Sensuality
If you are looking
To exude confidence,
High self-worth and
a presence of magnetism
then activating your dark feminine energy
will be a great idea.
Learn The Law Of Detachment:
The law of detachment
Is the fastest way as a lady
To pull your energy back
And attract everything you want.
If you are struggling with letting go
And detaching from People
The best advice I can give you
Is to go no contact,
No matter what happens,
Please don’t reach out and don’t allow them access
Into your life.
Take all that energy and pour it back into yourself
Do self-care, go out with friends, read a book,
learn a skill or something new.
I know it is going to be painful at first
Because you want to seek comfort
In the in something or someone that did you wrong,
But they don’t deserve you.
With detachment you need
To understand what’s truly meant for you
Will always come back to you.
So, there is no point worrying
And trying to control a situation.
Channel all that sadness into motivation
And elevate yourself to the point
Where you’re unrecognizable.
Set Boundaries:
You need to understand
How important it is to set boundaries.
Because people will play in your face
Till the day you die
And there will come a time In your life
you wouldn’t be able to blame anyone for that.
You don’t have to play about your boundaries
Because it takes so much courage
And confidence
to not tolerate any form of disrespect.
You need to be strong enough
To realize having boundaries
Will not make you lose genuine connections.
It actually protects you
From people who will take advantage of your kindness.
If you want to be happy in your life,
You need to be okay with being misunderstood.
Okay with that being said,
Boundaries come in three (3) different forms
Emotional, Psychological, and Physical
Emotional being how something makes you feel,
Psychological is how something affects how you think of yourself
And physical which is related to touch.
You can classify any of your non-negotiable
Under these 3 forms of boundaries
and learn how to set boundaries
in a calm and respectful way,
When someone crosses the line.
Be Authentic:
You don’t have to be a people pleasure
To be liked by others
In fact, what trying to please everyone does
Is make people lose respect for you
As simple as that.
You can be kind
But you shouldn’t be too nice.
To be your authentic self
Is to always speak your truth,
Don’t undervalue yourself,
Learn to love yourself,
Protect your peace, and
Listen to your intuition.
If I am going to tell you one thing
And one thing only,
Is that you should fall in love with yourself.
Invest In Self-care And Beauty:
Investing in your self-care and beauty
is a must as a lady looking
To embrace her dark feminine energy
Stop being cheap with yourself
Get your hair and nails done
Invest in your skincare and makeup,
Smell nice and dress well.
You don’t have to break the bank
To look good.
I didn’t say self-care will not cost you some coin
But I don’t have to be super expensive.
The biggest act of self-love as a lady
Is how you treat yourself
And this includes your physical presentation.
I know this doesn’t sound right
But people treat you better
When you look good.
Be Financially Independent:
You are a lady,
You Need to be able to take care of your finance
And be able to maintain your lifestyle
With or without a man’s help.
It’s okay to have someone to provide for you.
And I am Pro-women getting princess treatment
But you should be able to maintain it,
Get a job, start a side business
Either way,
Have some means of getting your bag.
When you are able to take yourself
You are less likely to stay in a situation
where you are tolerated or disrespected
And these can be friendships, relationships or anyone in general.
Level Up Your Mindset:
Levelling up your mindset
Is the quickest way
To get your life together
And the best way to level up your mindset
Is by reading self-help books,
Journaling daily, meditating on a daily
And praying.
The dark feminine energy women
Is always seeking knowledge,
Learning, and unlearning certain things
About life and herself.
Self-improvement will help you
Prioritize yourself and saying NO to people becomes easier.
Also reading and listening to podcast
Will help you understand yourself better.
Be Mysterious
The dark feminine energy woman
Values privacy
Because the less people know about you
The more difficult it is to destroy
Your image and reputation.
The best ways to be mysterious
Is to be calm, avoid drama,
talk less, and be less reactive.
Never be predictable
And always use absence to create respect
Which was said by Robert Greene
In his book The 48 Laws of Power.
Less will always be more.
Connect With Your Sensuality
A woman´s sensual energy
is on of her most potent power
and as a woman if you know how to activate this energy
you will become very dangerous.
sensual energy is all about been connected to your senses.
sensuality at its core is tapping into your senses
like sight, hearing, touch, smell, and intuition
and the best way to connect to your senses
is to slow down
the way you walk, talk and move in general.
I hope this blog post was able to help you learn how to tap into your dark feminine energy
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